The Birth Story of
Enzo Peregrina
8/15/14
Parents: Mallorie
& Mike Peregrina
Told by: April
Millar, doula
I was so
happy to have met Mallorie and Mike, It seemed as though everything aligned and
they ended up in my HypnoBirthing class. We got to know each other pretty well
and I was even more pleased when Mallorie asked me to be her doula.
It was Thursday evening August 14th,
we made arrangements to meet up so they could get my birth pool for Mallorie to
labor in at home. As I briefly spoke with them I could tell Mallorie knew
something was going to happen soon. They were both so excited.
Sure enough
about 9:00PM I got a call from Mallorie telling me she was experiencing
contractions. I gave her the advice to go to bed and see if she could sleep
between her contractions so she could give her body some energy when she really
needed it.
Mike called
me at 3:00AM “Her contractions are about every 2-3 minutes, can you head over?”
I got to their house about 4:00AM, exactly the same time Mallorie’s mom was
getting there. We walked into a sanctuary. The lights were low, beautiful music
was playing, deliciously scented essential oils were diffusing, The birth pool
was set up, and Mallorie was right in the center laboring like a goddess. And
her sweet little dog, Toby, was protecting her constantly.
We all got in and started to give her support and comfort
measures as she labored. It was about 5:00AM when she decided she was ready to
go to the hospital. It was a bit of a process to get out the door but we got to
the hospital at about 5:45AM. She was 6cm and 80% thin. Her nurse came in and
decided to move us to a room with a bathtub since Mallorie was laboring non-medicated.
Mallorie
was incredible!! She labored for hours in
many different positions, breathing deeply, relaxing completely, and just
overall conquering this labor. At 10AM Mallorie was at an 8cm with a bulgy bag
of waters so she and her Dr. decided to artificially rupture her membranes.
Things got more intense for Mallorie, she was so tired from
not sleeping all night and having her body work so hard for so long. She was
focusing more deeply in her body and tuning the rest of us out. At 10:45ish her
Dr. checked her again and found that the babies head was posterior. As Mallorie
was in a contraction he tried to push the lip of the cervix that was still
there back and turn the babies head to be anterior. Mallorie was un-medicated!
She felt everything that he did and
it caused her excruciating pain! The sound out of her mouth at that moment made
me cry to hear. I wished I could have taken on even just some of what she was
feeling. After that her labor became unbearable. It was almost as if she could
not get a handle on her contractions and they were more than she had in her to
handle at that moment. She asked for an analgesic to take the edge off. It
really did nothing but made her a bit irrational. Not to mention because her
baby was posterior she was feeling him deep in her back and bottom. “I feel
like I am going to split apart!” She kept saying. Unfortunately that was
because of his position. She labored for a long time on her hands and knees
trying to get him to turn. She also kept saying that she wanted it to be over,
that she wanted to go back in time and not be pregnant. It was really rough at
this point. At about noon, I could tell this was not normal laboring and
Mallorie was severely suffering, I asked if she needed an epidural. It was like
she just needed permission. Yes, she didn’t want to experience one more
contraction. The anesthesiologist got there and gave her a spinal tap and an
epidural. It took the pain right away. The relief on Mallorie was immediate; it
was almost like she was coming back from being buried. We got her comfortable
so she could rest before she needed to start pushing.
At this point I had a nursing baby who hadn’t eaten for 10
hours so I asked if I could go soothe my baby and hopefully be back before all
the action happened. I left at 1:00PM. (Unfortunately I was not able to make it
back. My babysitter needed to leave at 3:00 and my husband couldn’t get off
work until 3:30. I met him in Orem and was on my way back to Mallorie when I
got a text from Mike at about 4:00 telling me Enzo was born. I was stuck in
standstill traffic so I just turned around when I could and headed home.)
The
remainder of this story is retold from when Mallorie told me how it went: At
2:00PM they had her start pushing. For Two
Hours they had her push. Her Dr. said he was getting concerned with how
long the baby had been in the birth path and said if he wasn’t born soon he’d
have to use forceps or the vacuum. Mallorie asked for 5 more contractions. She
also mentioned that it would help if she could feel anything, it was then that
the Dr. noticed her epidural was still dripping when it should have been turned
off hours ago! They got it turned off, Mallorie started to feel more of her
body and in 5 pushes little baby Enzo was born!!!!
The real kicker was as soon as
Mallorie started pushing he turned back to be in the anterior position.
Speculating, they think the reason he turned posterior in the first place was
because he had a really short umbilical cord.
I was
disappointed I wasn’t there but I am so glad I got to be there to help when I
was needed. Mallorie truly did an amazing job! I am so impressed with her
determination and dedication to her baby. She is a wonderful mama! Little Enzo
is adorable!
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